society also teaches "don't get kidnapped" versus "don't kidnap".

by teaching "don't rape" you're implying that every person is born with the will to rape. that's not true.

you are right, that isn't true, but it's like how in school, they teach "don't do drugs" to reinforce that drugs are bad, and discourage kids from doing them, even though not everyone wants to do drugs. Do you think that teaching "Don't do drugs" implies that everyone is born with the will to do drugs?