@Defining-Weird, I would probably stop talking to him about your crush, because it'll continue to make him feel like he's unworthy, maybe talk to him more, and give him more attention, but in a friendly way, and not a romantic way 💩

@AndPeggy, I think you'll want to tell your parents first, as long as they're not homophobic, and then letting them tell her, because that way she'll be more relaxed, and she won't be able to get angry with you upfront 💩

@Defining-Weird Maybe you need to get him alone and tell him that you know he likes you and you don't feel the same way? Just maybe get it out of the way and I know you'll feel better. It'll definitely be awkward for a while, but if you're really friends he'll try to get over whatever feelings he has so things can get back to normal again. 🦄

@AndPeggy Hi fren I see your problem. I agree with Kikwis, talk to your parents about telling her and see how they feel about it. 🦄

@ailurophile_ You're pretty much in a prison of having to wear long pants all the time, so I would tell your parents, although it will be hard, if you tell them you've recovered, and you don't self harm anymore. If you're looking to get rid of the scars in the long run, I would use Mederma scar cream, but you have to put it on about 3 times a day and it smells really gross 💩

My advice is really bad and I can't formulate sentences 💩

awh ohmygod this acc is my favorite:)💫😹💞

Since March I've been having some pretty bad self esteem issues, and I'm always uncontrollably comparing myself to others. I've also been having suicidal thoughts for awhile, now. In fact, I've also self harmed a few times. I'm also really afraid to come out to my family, someday. I don't know what to do. I just want it all to stop. I just want to be happy with myself.

@howellboutnoo sure-🌈

@cassie try oatmeal cream from aveeno it works really well ok-🌈

@peridork wELL I hAvE bEEn tHeRe1!!11! first of all, PLEASE STOP CUTTING! it's really bad for your skin. I know it's desperate, but instead, write on yourself, or draw, or listen to music. I also uncontrollably compare myself to others as well. listen here, that's the one hardest part about this, grasping the concept of you being perfectly worthy enough. you have to learn that what they look like and act like are not your problem. it's one of those things you'll never completely solve, but you can help. like yesterday, when I was at camp, I'm the youngest in my group, so I kept comparing myself to how tall I was, how I felt like I was too fat, and how I thought my bòobs were too small. it's okay to thing that, but not so constantly that it ruins your day and gives you suicidal thoughts. NO SUICIDE EITHER OKAY! I know suicide may seem like the answer now, you'll be glad in a couple years you didn't do it. maybe right now, it doesn't seem this way, but suicide affects everyone you know. okay? about coming out, you know your parents better than I. if they are close to you, loving, and accepting jump in and come out, it could help you become happier with yourself. if they aren't, wait until you are so comfortable with yourself that their opinion no longer matters, which will come in time as long as you stop physically putting yourself down. okay friend? lemme tell you, I screamed when you followed me back. I love your account sm. and I love you sm. your personality, your talent, everything about you that you've showcased on your account. ily-🌈

^**writes long paragraph on self esteem*

ayy my crush is moving, he doesn't have a cell phone, I'm not allowed to get skype. If he doesn't move, he'll probably get back together with this really pretty bítch who treats him horribly. I'm really stressed about this what do

Thank you so much. <3

there are people that I do sports with (yes for some reason I am v v v active even though I am a potato) and they look so friendly but I'm really scared to talk to them so I'm pretty much always alone. and I wanna do badly talk to them and become friends and they are soooo nice to me but I just get really scared when I talk to people I don't know but I JUST WANT FRIENDS well I do have friends from school but like I've known them since like forever so I'm comfortable with that but justtttt ughhhh help me talk to people plz? 🙃🙃🙃🙃

I know it's v awkward sometimes to talk to new people, (I've been there myself), but there are small ways to start. I actually play soccer, and I know what being on a new team is like. If they seem like nice people, you can maybe start off with a compliment? If they make a nice play during practice, tell them! This will let them know that you aren't a rock that sits in the back and doesn't speak. The hardest part in making friends is finding similarities. But you already have one with them! Use that to your advantage. I don't know what sports you do, but maybe bring up your favorite pro level team during practice. This would definitely be a conversation starter. I know it seems hard, it seems awkward, but if they're nice people they won't judge you for being awkward. And, you don't even have to be the one who starts the conversation! Chiming in with your ideas during a chat about whatever shows that you are an open person. Sometimes you have to take a deep breath, round up your bravery, and do it. Talking to new people is never easy, but it will be worth it in the long run. 🎧 (I changed my username)

AH that was @basicallynotbasic ^

this is just a little question thing, but do you think it would be easier if we put what people have asked in a post and then put our response? would that make it easier?

yes that would be much easier. it's really messy like this. we could have a post for all the people to put their problems, and then. we make their problem in to an individual collage 🎧

also (eek!) I changed my username so this post isn't correct anymore

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Do you want me to make another post??

one for people to put their problems on, then we can repost it every so often??

tysm 😊

how dos me tell boi dat I likez boi

TRANSLATION *how does one tell a boy that one likes him

@JediMasterNarwhal Oh lord, ur problem is one I tend to run away from. It all depends on the boy. If you're over 85% sure he likes u back, then proceed to step 2:How to tell him. Texting is a LOT easier and less awkward than actually speaking to him, and gives more time for him to think about his response. (If u don't even have his number yet, then that's a problem and u need to fix that by getting it from a frand if ur a scared awk person like me or asking him) I recommend starting a nice chat with him (texting) the night b4 u plan to tell him. Then the next day be like "hey, I'm not sure if you knew this already.....but I like you. Ur a rly nice person..." blah blah blah. Don't say this in the middle of a convo with him, because that takes away the purpose of having time to think if ur texting. And then wait for his response! Hopefully he will say he likes you back!!! Hope this helped. 🎧

@JediMasterNarwhal, I'd just like to add to what was previously said, I'm in the same position as you are now. try and get as close to this boy as possible, try to become really good friends with him but just not so that you're in the friend zone. it will then be easier to tell him that you like him and there's more of a chance he feels the same 🦁

@theinternetsupportgroup I made a post where people can comment their problems and stuff, i hope this is okay with you all 🦁

I used to be good friends with this girl on my street. But then she turned into a total bítçh and I tried to cut off communication with her. it helped that that year I was attending a different school then her. This year she keeps texting and asking me how to get into my school and I don't know how to tell her I don't want her going to my school. At my school I'm free to be myself with little to no drama. I can hold my girlfriends hand and not worry about it getting back to my mom. If she goes to my school I know she'll start stuff and make it a nightmare for me. I don't know how to be mean and I feel unable to tell her how I feel. What do I do?

this account is beautiful