I wish I could help but since I haven't experienced this I don't know what it's like but maybe go on YouTube and Tyler Oakley as he has videos with tips. Hope it helps and remember that they love you and if they don't accept it its 2026 and they're going to have to move on.

Before coming out, why not ask your family members their options of LGBT+. If they respect it, then that's good. Plus, that might be one chance you can then tell them. If not, well I think that's a sign to give it some more time before telling them. If you need help with confidence, just ask friends for help and talk to them. Friends help in many ways, if if they accept you, sure enough they will boost up your confidence. Good luck hun💓

*opinions

come out on Aprils fools day, if they don't accept it, say "Aprils fools! Haha, you thought..."

and if they don't accept it say "Aprils fools!"

but there's a catch:

if your family has a history of pranking on April 1st, it probably isn't the best idea because they'll assume you're joking from the start

and if you never ever pranked on April 1st I would prank them once or twice in a row on Aprils Fools day, then the next year not prank them and then the next year come out. Then you also have time to play detective to find out their views on LGBT (But that takes a few years so...)

But it's probably best if you watch some YouTube videos first or so

on second thought, please don't follow my advice... 😓😶🙄