she once said “i’m afraid she’ll have a crush on one of our friends because she’s gay” behind my back. I HAVE TO LAUGH. she still thinks i’m bisexual which is far from the truth. she doesn’t know i’m asexual (if she even knows what that means) and that i prefer the term qûèèr (why is that censored i’ll never know) OH BOY if she found out i’m (probably, bc of identity crisis and self doubt and questioning) not cis she would MALFUNCTION bc she’s so ignorant and forms opinions without any real evidence

her: gay people are so extra me: have u ever met one her: no and i don’t want to

me: is about to confide in her about how i find myself gross, disgusting and a disappointment to my parents her: cuts me off and changes subject bc she doesn’t want to hear it bc she’s UNCOMFORTABLE

I had a friend like that who totally turned on my other friend when she came out as bi, then atheist, then lesbian. drop that hœ ASAP 😤 oh and my friend is married a beautiful woman now which I’m sure infuriates my horrid old pal 😂

“if u don’t like urself why don’t u just not be gay” so i really have to explain to u why being gay isn’t a choice u f^^king intellectual

but when things get bad for her and i try to be there for her and be a good friend unlike her, she goes off and talks about how i’m so annoying and sh^t behind my back!

I HAVE TO LAUGH IN HER TWO FACES!

rant over

I feel that. it was super hard for me to drop her and another friend, my best friend of six years. but I realized they were toxic and it was only hurting me. I dead a $$ was in the same room with her every evening in chorus, right in front of her, but didn’t speak to her ever again after for the third and final time I reached out and told her how she was affecting me, that I wanted her to stop so we could move on. when I said enough, I meant it! haven’t spoken to her in a year. it hurt more to be with her than to cut her out of my life, and afterwards I was so much happier. I know how hard it is to get to the point of cutting someone off tho. just know that you deserve better ❤️

I remember at one point they saw an article for a gay pride parade on the computer and one of them points and said “eww!!” like three year olds lm ao. I didn’t drop them for their lgbt+ beliefs, but because of their intolerance and their maltreatment of me and others. your friend should have her opinions but love you just the same.

thank you! also what a solid rant g. drop that bï. tch you don’t need her or her flawed sense of the LGBTQ community 😂💕

bRuh she’s trash just leave. I hate her sm man bc you don’t deserve to have to deal with that bs!!

yea i get that but still just yell at her and storm off one day. that’ll end a friendship real quick

hey i’m sorry this is so late but your friend sounds like a total MEANIE and i would willingly fight her in a parking lot!! im sorry i don’t have any actual advice but that is a really horrible situation and im really sorry that she’s making u feel bad and you can always come talk to us if u don’t feel good