I just don’t know anymore I almost cried talking to her. seeing her genuine disgust at my simple request. the doubt in her eyes that shattered my heart. I know this may sound dramatic but I thought this situation was going to go differently

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I just don’t know anymore I almost cried talking to her. seeing her genuine disgust at my simple request. the doubt in her eyes that shattered my heart. I know this may sound dramatic but I thought this situation was going to go differently


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btw I’ll reply to everyone on my precious post tmr because I’m mentally exhausted
omg babe you’re not being dramatic at all — this is not okay AT ALL
honestly they do be like that tho
^^dont feel pressured to respond — take some time to yourself honestly
you rlly and truly do not deserve to put up w stuff like this ESPECIALLY from your mother — she has no right to control you like that and have no trust in you at all it builds a rlly toxic and unhealthy relationship
your feelings abt this situation are COMPLETELY valid dude
i would say try to talk to her abt it but i’m sure you already have — if not maybe it could help??
i don’t know the relationship you have w her that well but from this try keeping distance form her as much as you can while living under the same roof — if there’s anyone you can talk to abt this irl that would be able to help that’s also a thought whether it’s another family member or a friends parents a teacher i think it could possibly be beneficial
and if it’s gets worse or is h a continuous thing or anything like that sometimes it can be good to live somewhere else for a bit — i know i might be giving you like totally extreme advice or smth but idk the situation fully so j know that if it’s super overbearing or smth if there’s anyone you could stay w for a little bit it probably wouldn’t be a bad idea
either way if it’s that extreme or not you don’t deserve to be treated like this EVER ilysm and i hope she can understand that what she’s doing isnt okay and changes her views xx
oh wait one last thing before i stop spamming this post w a million things — you have worth and you’re so sweet and amazing and i’m truly sorry you have to deal w this — a mother should never act like that towards her kid and i’m so sorry she does — please know we love you so so so much and i’m sure things will get better
ugh dude that stinks- my parents don’t trust me either :( i don’t even know why 😭
i’m really sorry about this :( i totally understand
i’m not allowed to have any social media, watch certain shows/movies, and i have a tiny time limit on my phone :/
gosh I TOTALLY get you!
my mom is just the same!
at least yours said yes at the end!
thank you!!!
you’re not being dramatic at all! i get the whole “why doesn’t she trust me” thing. i think we can all relate to that but i understand why you’re upset & sad over that. your mom asking to show photos & messages is not good she should know that’s going to ruin your relationship with her. i hope it gets better or you can sit down with her & work it out <3
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Aw I’m so sorry :( That’s really awful
aww dude really and truly it’s not fair of her to stereotype you like that — i’m glad i could at least help a little (sorry for ranting like 5 paragraphs of the just in case scenario haha — i’m glad it’s not that bad tho) but do know even if it’s “not that bad” you still have every right to be angry w her
this idea of grouping ALL teenagers into one thing is a horrible thing the media has done and she needs to understand that that’s a totally different reality and made up world — you’re you you’re her daughter and you should be given trust especially when you’re so sweet and have given her no reason to think otherwise :/ i’m wishing you all the best and i’m sure everything will get better even if it’s w a little time xoxo
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dude that sucks-
awww that sucks!! I feel so bad for you!!🥺🥺