what, why? I mean, I understand why it's frustrating, but what happened?

Well, I just get a little miffed that some of the phandom jumps to conclusions really fast. I ship Phan and all but sometimes they deserve privacy.

yES they dig for the tiniest things and blow it up enormously when it's probably not even true

tbh I don't think if they'd come out if they are together cuz the fandom wouldn't be mature about it

Like dan will tweet 'eating (insert food)! haven't had it in a while.' and the phandom will start freaking out and then start making it about Phan. I totally agree with you. some of the phandom cannot find their chill.