I feel you babe, I’ve really isolated myself and haven’t seen my friends outside of school in months. It’s my fault, I just am not interested in a lot of the stuff they want to do. I like to spend that time with my family, which is also important. I just hope my friends don’t feel neglected. Just sit down and think to yourself, what’s the part that’s upsetting you the most? Then change it. It’ll be hard but you can’t think about other people or your job or even school, until you have your mental health together. That’s one of the hardest things I’ve had to accept. I have to take care of myself before I try to pleas others.

And if no one else is there to listen, just hmu in here and I’ll listen to you. I’ll give the best advice I can, but for me just having someone to listen can be the best help. I believe in you, because I’ve been there before. ❤️❤️❤️

so I'm in college now, and despite the HUGE social environment I am feeling the same way about my social life. the other day I broke down in front of my mom because I realized that there was no one at college I could confidently call a friend, not even my roommate. I feel so lonely, but being at home with my sisters does help a bit. it totally sucks, but my goal for when I go back is to take some risks, and try some new things (clubs yes, but also try just talking to strangers more) I hope that by pushing myself outside my comfort bubble might help me find some cool, non-let's get wasted every night friends. maybe something like this could help you? idk, just know I feel you hardcore

still, you go girl! just keep on keeping on

that sounded so cheesy 😂