yeah sure

you feel like you need to helf harm or you feel like you need to be in a relationship?

if it is about the self harming, I would appreciate it if you stopped, I know you would as well, and I understand ad how you feel and how you need to do it. I don't know why you do it but I understand. I would like it if you tried not to because it breaks my heart. but I also know that you must be going through a hard time right now. I love you and I wish I could be there to hold you. I'm not the kind of girl to laugh at a guy who cries so I'd hold you if you needed to. why don't you try other things, like punching pillows or something because your punishing yourself even though you don't deserve it. I will always be here for you, and I will always talk to you when you need me. I love you xx but please try. I'd rather you abuse me than hurt yourself

if you don't mind... um... would you send me a photo of how bad it is? I won't get mad I promise, I just want to see... if you don't want to just say no, I wont get mad at that either. I don't want to upset you

and also if you don't mind, why? why do you do it?