well then stop what u are doing and look on the bright side and put the sad things aside

you do know that telling someone to stop cutting themselves is actually a bad thing to do. it's harder than it sounds. I've been through this with my bestie who has clinical depression. just give them support and try and make things happier in their life. I mean you obvs can't because I doubt you know her, but the point is, don't just tell her to stop doing something like this

or not eating. it's not just cutting that's self harming, not eating too