I have very curly/frizzy hair and it is in a “boy cut”! I don’t like that term either tho lol. But I think it’s very pull-of-able(idk if that’s a word)if you just use some frizz cream in it! It’s much more manageable than long curly hair in my opinion

And my mom wasn’t happy about it and first and was worried it wouldn’t look right but it turned out good!

I have really thick wavy hair too. I asked my mom about getting my hair cut short a couple months back and she asked me if I felt like a boy(don’t worry my parents are super supportive, she’s just a social worker so sometimes therapist mode kicks in) and I just told her I liked short hair.Tbh I think she doesn’t want me to cut it bc I used to have long hair (like down to my stomach) but my hair has changed a lot from then and she wants to see how it’d look long with my hair how it is now

I’m probably gonna ask her to make me an appointment to get my hair cut when my brother goes bc I feel really confident now

tbh, same. I mean, gender wise, I think I’m like mostly a girl? idk if that makes sense... but I REALLY wanted a short haircut and my mom IS homophobic, transphobic blah blah blah... so she was like YOURE A FRIKIN GIRL, NO SHORT HAIR FOR YOU! so I cut it as short as she let me (which is like a sorta bob...)

ARGH! it’s really annoying tho, and I’m sure you can relate... always conforming to what our parents want us to be!

I say you try it. why not? sure, your hair grows back slowly, but it does grow back. life is about making risks, and you would be so pretty!!!! (you already are)

ok. if you think it’s a lung problem, you should DEFINITELY get it checked out! (the breathing pattern thing will still help tho, it opens the air passages). I know my friend had a lung issue and when she exercised a lot, she couldn’t breathe and the one time she had to go to hospital, ahhh it was so scary! 😵

idk, it could be... tbh, I really don’t want to start questioning my gender rn, because especially if I DO think I’m not necessarily a girl, I would never come out with it because of my family, so for now, I’m not trying to question or whatever. also, it’s not the kind of thing where I’m like OMG! IM DEFINITELY A BOY! THERES NO QUESTION ABOUT IT! it’s more like ‘I think I’m a girl, but I’ve got a lot of boy tendencies, does that mean something?’ get what I’m saying?... idek anymore 😂

well maybe she just meant it would be surprising, if she really loves you, she’ll support you even if you aren’t cis