I need all of your advice. So I have a friend who sometimes texts me and says that I'm her best friend but never talks to me in real life. At school she ignores me and it makes me uncomfortable and upset. I have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?

what-a-catch

I need all of your advice. So I have a friend who sometimes texts me and says that I'm her best friend but never talks to me in real life. At school she ignores me and it makes me uncomfortable and upset. I have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?


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she constantly starts fights with me to and I can barely talk to her without wanting to burst into tears. I don't want to be mean or hurt anyone but I just can't stand that she lies to me and manipulates me and gets away with it. Do you remember when I posted about having a friend over at my house who didn't talk to me for 2 hours and then left without notifying me? that was her. She gets angry very easily I'm just afraid that if I stop talking to her she'll get really mad and hurt me. To be honest, I'm terrified of her and this entire situation. I'm completely lost and I don't know what I'm supposed to do
oh my goodness hmmm I've never been in that kind of situation fren I don't know how to help you :(( I'm so sorry fren I'm terrible at advice
I'm really sorry but it looks like this friend is trying to use you, which sucks. I don't think you should be friends with her, but the choice is yours. Just remember that you're worth more than you realize, and nobody can change that.
pc isn't letting me comment what I wanted to but just remember that you deserve happiness and love and you shouldn't settle for anything less
ik this sounds mean but stop talking to them. if they make you feel uncomfortable in real life then why talk to them
she might be going through some depression and anxiety and is just letting her anger out on you because you're her best friend and you tend to hurt the ones you love. you could always try asking her about any worsening problems she's been having lately and offer ways (not just say you're there for her, but actually offer different scenarios that you know would at least make her happy, even if she says there isn't anything, just trying your best and sincerely being there) and see if her anger and muteness subdues.
no problem :))
I agree with foreigntongues but make sure to put your needs first. if you feel upset and unsafe in that relationship, the person is likely very toxic and you need to distance yourself.
confront that bïtch
slap her in the fa--i mean just saltily text her the next time she says "you're my best friend" and say "hm but i thought best friends actually hung out at school and didn't try to avoid each other at all costs🤔"